[Intro]
Come sit a minute, kid
I’ve got a few things I learned late
[Verse 1]
Keep some cash in the lining of your winter coat
Know the difference between a promise and a note
If a room makes you smaller, you don’t have to stay
You can thank them for the lesson, then walk away
Call your mother when the silence gets too loud
Eat before you drive, don’t follow every crowd
The world will praise the mask that never makes a sound
But your honest face is worth more than the crown
I won’t pretend I always chose the better road
I’ve carried old mistakes like stones inside my coat
So if I warn you hard, it’s fear beneath the tone
I’m learning how to guide you without holding the throne
[Chorus]
You are not the sum of the hands that let you down
Not the names they gave you, not the lost-and-found
When the door won’t open, build another way
And if your voice starts shaking, say it anyway
I’ll be in the doorway, but I won’t block the sky
You were never meant to live the life I left behind
Take the good I give you, leave the rest with me
Go become the woman you already came to be
[Verse 2]
Choose friends who tell the truth before the rumor spreads
Who can sit beside your sorrow without fixing it instead
Love should feel like room to breathe, not a test you have to pass
No one gets to call it care while they’re breaking all your glass
Read the fine print, lock the windows, trust your gut
A polished smile can hide a blade beneath the cut
But don’t let every danger turn your heart to stone
Keep a little softness; that’s a strength of its own
Save your private victories, you don’t owe the crowd
Some flowers grow in silence, underground and proud
And when you miss the mark, don’t make a home in shame
Clean the wound, learn the truth, and try again
[Chorus]
You are not the sum of the hands that let you down
Not the names they gave you, not the lost-and-found
When the door won’t open, build another way
And if your voice starts shaking, say it anyway
I’ll be in the doorway, but I won’t block the sky
You were never meant to live the life I left behind
Take the good I give you, leave the rest with me
Go become the woman you already came to be
[Bridge]
One day you’ll hear my voice inside your own
Not as a chain, just a compass pointing home
If I taught you fear, unlearn it in the sun
If I taught you courage, pass it when you’re done
[Final Chorus]
You are not the sum of the hands that let you down
You can redraw the map, you can turn this around
When the door won’t open, build another way
And if your voice starts shaking, say it anyway
I’ll be in the doorway, learning how to let you fly
Proud enough to loosen every knot I tied
Take the good I give you, leave the rest with me
Go become the woman you already came to be
[Outro]
I’m still here
Not ahead of you
Not above you
Beside you